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I am going through a divorce and she is taking our home. Bad time to buy?

I am in the middle of a divorce - married 3 years, no prenup. She is not taking me for all I'm worth so I'm pretty lucky. However, I surrendered our house to her. I am currently renting a small apartment but I have children from a precious marriage and want to buy another house. Ex wife works but does not get paid enough to cover all of mortgage payment. Even with my still supplementing the mortgage I currently have on our marital property, can I qualify for a loan on another? Would this work if we transferred everything into her name? by GradyS from Buffalo, New York. Sep 10th 2013 Reply


William J Acres (William_Acres)
#74 ranked lender in Arizona - 8,728 contributions

You are not providing enough info for anyone here to properly answer your question.. without knowing your debt to income ratio, and the amount of income you have, we will not be able to tell how much of a mortgage you would qualify for.. so if you want to get the guesswork out of it, then I suggest you contact a LOCAL mortgage broker and apply with them. Do not use the local "Big" bank, or one of those 50 states internet lenders or nationwide lenders...By applying with your LOCAL Broker, you have an advantage because he's familiar with local customs and works with numerous lenders, seeking out the best loan terms for your particular scenario. Because he has lower overhead, he can offer you lower rates and lower fees than most of the larger lenders.. I'm a Broker here in Scottsdale AZ and I only lend in Arizona. If you or someone you know is looking for financing options, feel free to contact me or pass along my information. 480-287-5714 WilliamAcres.com

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Josh Lund (Josh_Lund)
#44 ranked lender in Minnesota - 113 contributions

As long as your debt to income ratio is good, you should be fine! Contact your local lender.

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Ernesto Marez (Ernesto)
#68 ranked lender in Maryland - 137 contributions

you can qualify if:your debt ot income ratios fall inline with both properties or if your separation and divorce decree states she is responsible for the home and the payments.Has she considered refinancing the property into her own name and removing you from the loan and Deed?emarez@thefederalsavingsbank.com

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Peter Botros (PeterBotros)
#70 ranked lender in New York - 895 contributions

Hi Grady, I am a direct lender here in NY and NJ. We can address all your questions in a 5 minute phone call. Call me Peter Botros, 347 231 4444 or you can email me directly, PeterJBotros@gmail.com

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SHAHROKH CHARLES BEROKHIM (mortgageusa)
#87 ranked lender in New York - 68 contributions

need more info on income and expense

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Kay Cleland (kay@kcmortgagecolorado.com)
#30 ranked lender in Colorado - 229 contributions

I would suggest that you contact a local licensed mortgage professional in your state and discuss all of your concerns with them in person so that they may give you the best options. www.namb.org is the association for mortgage professionals. Right hand side of the screen and click on find a mortgage professional and put your state in.

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Dave Metsker (DaveMetsker)
#35 ranked lender in Oregon - 2,318 contributions

You can not transfer the existing loan into her name only. She has insufficient income to refinance. You can still buy a house, but you may have to consider the total of BOTH payments in your debt ratio.

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Sean Young (SeanYoung)
#1 ranked lender in Colorado - 1,112 contributions

Hi Grady, the best thing you can do at this point is to get in contact with a local loan officer and do a full loan application with credit and have the loan officer review your income and debts to see if you qualify. It will be well worth your time to have a loan officer assist you. You can find local lenders in your area by clicking the far right tab called Community then Find a Lender. Best wishes, Sean

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Joe Metzler (JoeMetzler)
#17 ranked lender in Minnesota - 4,843 contributions

As long as your debt-to-income ratio says you can safely afford the previous obligation AND any new house payment, there is no reason you can't get a new loan. This of course assumes everything else is OK (credit scores, down payment, etc.). www.StPaul-Mortgage.com

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Jason Vondrak (jvondrak)
#220 ranked lender in California - 1,741 contributions

As long as you are able to afford the current mortgage payment and a new mortgage payment for a new home you should be able to qualify. Lenders will determine this by examining your debt-to-income ratio. You also need to make sure you have good credit.

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