Many people assume that when the kids leave home, their newly empty nest automatically signals that downsizing into a smaller house or condo is the next step. In truth, for such families living in Sonoma County, downsizing is a common option--one that could very well be the best choice.

But, as the old Gershwin tune says, "it ain't necessarily so..."

For many of us, once we establish a firm direction in life, a lot of decisions are more or less made without much hesitation. Career, family, and even community needs head us in certain directions, so a lot of choices are obvious. But every once in a while the paths open up, and it's time to take a breath, clear the head, and realize that there may be a lot more freedom to change course than we are used to. When the downsizing idea bobs to the surface, it's likely to signal such a turning point. That's when it's your true interests and passions should govern your next step--especially with respect to your residential options, which will shape much of what happens next. If this summer you find yourself musing about downsizing, it might be fun to also consider-

Upsize: It sounds backwards: moving into a larger home with your smaller family. Yet if you have special interests or hobbies that have always called for a lot of elbow room, this could be the chance to add a workshop, rehearsal space, or studio that you've never quite been able to wangle. A larger home can also provide extra space you may need to accommodate the rest of the family when they come for a visit (especially if that family is going to be growing!).

Follow your heart:Have you always wanted to live near water, or wake up to a view that looks like it belongs on a magazine cover? Maybe you'd like to move close to a totally new metro area with museums, shows and restaurants you've never been able to explore before. Or perhaps it's a planned community that suddenly doesn't look so much like a refuge for 'old people' as a place that's loaded with bustling sporting and cultural activities...or a development built around a golf course...or winter sports complex. Downsizing in Sonoma County may be able to deliver on your ideal dream refuge...or maybe it beckons from far away. It might involve downsizing, or upsizing, or same-sizing!

Splurge a little:With the children gone, it may also be time for some guilt-free indulging. A luxury home or condo could include some amenities you've always wanted: a swimming pool or home spa--or classic architecture set in a storybook garden. Downsizing in Sonoma County by selling the family home and claiming a smaller but more upscale residence might also be a way you wind up claiming the home of your dreams.

Of course, many considerations will go into choosing your next home. Call me today for a free evaluation and pre-qualification letter. (707) 781-8180. www.facebook.com/homeloansrohnertpark

Tim Carroll

NMLS# 312738

Area Sales Manager

Affinity Lending Solutions